"Mike shows me what Jesus is like." - JT, WyldLife kid in Great Miami Valley, Ohio
There's something uniquely powerful about witnessing the gospel through the lens of a parent who has walked the road of raising teenagers. For junior high students navigating one of the most pivotal developmental seasons of their lives, having adult mentors who understand both the challenges of adolescence and the hope found in Christ can be transformational.
WyldLife, Young Life's ministry specifically designed for middle school students, creates the perfect environment for parents to step into meaningful volunteer roles during this crucial time in young people's lives. Unlike traditional youth programs, WyldLife focuses on building authentic relationships with kids in grades 6-8, meeting them where they are with the love of Jesus—and parents bring a unique perspective that can't be replicated.
When Life Experience Meets Ministry Opportunity
Mike Allen embodies this beautiful intersection of parenting and ministry. For twelve years, this father of five boys has been showing junior high kids who Jesus is through his role as a WyldLife leader. Working full-time as a physical therapist at Cincinnati Children's Hospital, Mike initially thought his season of ministry leadership had ended when he and his wife Janie graduated from Ohio State, got married, and started their careers.
But God had different plans. When Mike's oldest son entered Plains Junior High School, WyldLife had just launched at the school. Mike's initial involvement was simple—he planned to bring his son and a carload of kids to the weekly club meetings. What started as carpooling quickly evolved into something much deeper.
"I was stopping in to say 'hello' to the college leaders, then hanging around in case they needed an extra set of hands," Mike recalls. Within a semester, Area Director Shelia Chambers invited him to become a WyldLife leader. Mike said yes and jumped in with both feet.
The Parent Advantage in Youth Ministry
Mike's journey illustrates why parents make such effective WyldLife leaders. He compares his experience to the disciples telling Jesus they had only five loaves and two fish to feed 5,000 people. While he didn't feel like he had much to offer, he was willing to give what he had - and God multiplied it.
Parents bring invaluable qualities to WyldLife ministry that complement the energy and enthusiasm of college-age leaders and other young leaders. They offer stability, life experience, and a deep understanding of what families navigate during the junior high years. They've weathered the storms of adolescence, understand the developmental challenges kids face, and can speak with authority about God's faithfulness through all seasons of life.
"Mike invites kids into his life and home. When he speaks of Jesus, you can't help but want to hear more. It's who he is," says Shelia. "He has mentored and discipled his college co-leaders in life-changing ways, as well. His impact is immeasurable."
Why Junior High Is the Sweet Spot
The junior high/middle school years represent a critical window in spiritual development. This is when kids begin exploring faith on their own, questioning what they've been taught, and forming their own beliefs about God and life. It's also when peer influence intensifies, academic pressures mount, and the physical and emotional changes of adolescence create uncertainty and vulnerability.
Mike understands this season intimately. "That's the age when I started exploring faith on my own," he explains. "I love getting to be a safe place while kids discover who God is."
For parents, this presents an extraordinary opportunity. Your own children are navigating these same developmental challenges, giving you real-time insight into what junior high students need most. You understand their language, their struggles, and their questions because you're living it at home.
The Long View of Ministry Impact
Mike's commitment to WyldLife extends beyond having a child in junior high. Even though his youngest son won't start at the school until next year, Mike continues leading because he sees kids at this age trying to figure out how to grow up. "Why would I not do it?" he asks.
This long-term perspective is another gift that parent leaders bring to WyldLife. While college-age and other young leaders often serve only a few years, parents can provide consistency and continuity that spans multiple school years. Mike has watched kids with no faith background respond to the Gospel, continue following Jesus in high school, and go on to become leaders themselves.
The impact ripples through families as well. Mike's oldest son, Ben, "caught the bug" and has been leading alongside his father for the last four years. During a recent camp experience, Mike watched Ben explain the gospel to his younger brother and friends during cabin time. "Who am I that I get to watch my son explain the gospel to his little brother and his friends?" Mike wondered. "That is a gift that I never would have thought to ask for."
Fresh Faith Through Service
Perhaps counterintuitively, Mike has found that serving as a WyldLife leader has kept his own faith "fresh and vibrant." Rather than feeling drained by adding another commitment to an already full schedule, he's been energized by watching God work in the lives of students.
He imagines God telling him, "I'm not done with you yet. Whatever you give me, watch and see what I do with it." This perspective transforms volunteer service from an obligation into an adventure—a chance to participate in God's ongoing work in young lives.
You’re Never Too Old
Mike encourages parents and others who may think they're too old to be WyldLife leaders to take a risk and see what God has in store for them. The junior high years of your child's life—and the lives of their peers—represent a unique window of opportunity.
Your teenagers need you to be engaged in their world, not just as a parent but as someone who cares about their friends and their community. They need to see your faith lived out in relationship with others, demonstrating that following Jesus isn't just a family tradition but a life-giving relationship that extends beyond your home.
The kids in your community need adults who will invest in them during this crucial developmental season. They need safe places to explore faith, ask questions, and discover who God is. They need mentors who understand both the challenges they face and the hope available in Christ.
WyldLife provides the perfect vehicle for parents to step into this sweet spot of ministry—where your life experience, your parenting perspective, and your faith converge to create lasting impact in young lives. It's a chance to show junior high kids what Jesus is like, just as Mike has been doing for twelve years.
The question isn't whether you have enough to offer, but whether you're willing to give what you have and watch God multiply it beyond what you could imagine. In a season when your own teenagers are figuring out who they are and who God is, what better way to invest in their future than by investing in their community?